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You Can Be Happy for Them and Still Hurt: Finding Balance Through Infertility and When You're Trying To Conceive

You Can Be Happy for Them and Still Hurt: Finding Balance Through Infertility and When You're Trying To ConceiveBy: Sam Reynolds Published on: 28/10/2025

Let's be completely honest - finding out a friend is pregnant when you're struggling with infertility can feel like a massive kick when you're already down. You're happy for them (of course you are), but the news is yet another painful reminder that it's still not your turn

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You Can Be Happy for Them and Still Hurt: Finding Balance Through Infertility and When You're Trying To Conceive